...and we keep going on with our lives.
Either in pain, in happiness, in love, or in hate.
We go on.
Oompla Dee, Oompla Da.
I think the most important thing to remember is taking care of yourself is not being selfish. Creating a world of things that make you happy, despite the efforts against you is not a crime against humanity or against thyself. Though one person harbors hate and despair- it should not weigh down your heart. Take care of your heart. Be happy.
I have felt the sting of hate and anguish. I have felt the loss and desperation. And I can still smile. I can laugh every day. Anyone, Everyone has the power and opportunity to be positive.
I do not live in a fantasy world, I do not live in denial, but I do live in a world of my creation. Seeing beauty and being thankful. I will not let you have power over me, or allow you to bring me down. You are bringing this upon yourself.
I offer nothing but forgiveness, acceptance, and movement. It is now up to you to take the first step, again, for real. Let go, and maybe you will see.
Maybe.
One can hope right?
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Thankful Thursday
Do you ever have those nights where you're comfy in bed, kinda tired, but not necessarily tired enough to sleep (even though I'm sure it's passed midnight...)?
I had one last night, and I was trying to settle my mind but I couldn't. So, in my efforts to find good things to think about before slumbering- I remembered Thankful Thursday, and it has truly been a while since I've done a post for it.
So here ya go, lucky you.
Every once in a while, someone will ask me, "Why do you wear a tail?"
Frankly, my answer is different every time... depending on who it is or how snarky I am feeling at the moment. But I must admit- the real, down to it, no lies answer is:
It makes me happy.
Whether it matches what I am wearing, draws the positive attention of a kind stranger, sparks up a conversation, or makes me feel downright adorable- I just love my tail.
I wear it everyday, unless I'm wearing a dress. I love my tail.
Are you wondering yet what this has to do with me being thankful? I hope so, otherwise you weren't really paying attention. Ah, just messing with ya. But nonetheless, I am thankful for my tail and the courage to wear it.
Actually, courage just may be the wrong way to put it. I don't need courage to wear it, I just like it. I just wear it. It's what I do. I am- the girl with the tail.
Here, now, is a list of other things I am thankful for on this VERY beautiful Thursday:
I am thankful for the man who loves me no matter how weird, stubborn, or moody I may be.
I am thankful for my awesome friends.
I am thankful for laughter! Oh laughter!
I am thankful for changing seasons, flowers, beautiful weather, and beautiful mountains.
...photography
...cute dogs
...good food
...gifted hands (healing, drawing, writing, dancing...)
...patience
...and so much much more!
Oh goodness, yes, that's a cheap sign off. I'm afraid I've got to get to work now.
I had one last night, and I was trying to settle my mind but I couldn't. So, in my efforts to find good things to think about before slumbering- I remembered Thankful Thursday, and it has truly been a while since I've done a post for it.
So here ya go, lucky you.
Every once in a while, someone will ask me, "Why do you wear a tail?"
Frankly, my answer is different every time... depending on who it is or how snarky I am feeling at the moment. But I must admit- the real, down to it, no lies answer is:
It makes me happy.
Whether it matches what I am wearing, draws the positive attention of a kind stranger, sparks up a conversation, or makes me feel downright adorable- I just love my tail.
I wear it everyday, unless I'm wearing a dress. I love my tail.
Are you wondering yet what this has to do with me being thankful? I hope so, otherwise you weren't really paying attention. Ah, just messing with ya. But nonetheless, I am thankful for my tail and the courage to wear it.
Actually, courage just may be the wrong way to put it. I don't need courage to wear it, I just like it. I just wear it. It's what I do. I am- the girl with the tail.
Here, now, is a list of other things I am thankful for on this VERY beautiful Thursday:
I am thankful for the man who loves me no matter how weird, stubborn, or moody I may be.
I am thankful for my awesome friends.
I am thankful for laughter! Oh laughter!
I am thankful for changing seasons, flowers, beautiful weather, and beautiful mountains.
...photography
...cute dogs
...good food
...gifted hands (healing, drawing, writing, dancing...)
...patience
...and so much much more!
Oh goodness, yes, that's a cheap sign off. I'm afraid I've got to get to work now.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Good Grief!
What a weekend.
What a week.
What a life!
Things are absolutely wonderful right now. I have to, I must, I will...
Be thankful!
I'm taking a deep breath, and living in this moment, to further validate the fact that life is a genuine matter of perspective.
Time to go cuddle until the food coma wears off :)
Cheers,
Vi
PS- If you eat too many Tagalongs, you WILL get a stomach ache.
What a week.
What a life!
Things are absolutely wonderful right now. I have to, I must, I will...
Be thankful!
I'm taking a deep breath, and living in this moment, to further validate the fact that life is a genuine matter of perspective.
Time to go cuddle until the food coma wears off :)
Cheers,
Vi
PS- If you eat too many Tagalongs, you WILL get a stomach ache.
Saturday, March 19, 2011
EEEEEEeeeep!
What? FREE seared tuna, crab legs, AND wine? YES PLEASE.
Thank you, Matt- for your "continued years of service" and having me be your +1 to the endless buffet of most excellent food, courtesy of Park City Mountain Resort.
Life is good.
That's all for tonight,
Signing out happy as a clam,
Vi
PS- Does anyone know what "happy as a clam" really means? Why would a clam be happy? And why would one compare themselves to said clam?
Thank you, Matt- for your "continued years of service" and having me be your +1 to the endless buffet of most excellent food, courtesy of Park City Mountain Resort.
Life is good.
That's all for tonight,
Signing out happy as a clam,
Vi
PS- Does anyone know what "happy as a clam" really means? Why would a clam be happy? And why would one compare themselves to said clam?
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
In Addition!
So, yesterday's post got me thinkin' a little more about life... funny how that happens, eh?
It came to my attention that the first thing that completely changed my life was attempting to remove the word "hate" from my vocabulary. Is it a big deal? You bet. Was it hard? Still is.
If you catch yourself saying it- take it back. I usually spit out something along these lines, "Oh I hate it when that happens! ...I mean... I REALLY don't like it!!"
Most likely, it bugs people when I do that, but I have a reason for it... and I will always do it- for the rest of my life I'd imagine. I wish I could just stop saying the word forever but it's a HUGE part of today's vocabulary. T'is a word that will never go away, but should. Though I'd imagine if it went away it would be replaced with something worse.
Or better.
I like to think better. You know me.
Have a good Wednesday everyone.
Cheers,
Vi
It came to my attention that the first thing that completely changed my life was attempting to remove the word "hate" from my vocabulary. Is it a big deal? You bet. Was it hard? Still is.
If you catch yourself saying it- take it back. I usually spit out something along these lines, "Oh I hate it when that happens! ...I mean... I REALLY don't like it!!"
Most likely, it bugs people when I do that, but I have a reason for it... and I will always do it- for the rest of my life I'd imagine. I wish I could just stop saying the word forever but it's a HUGE part of today's vocabulary. T'is a word that will never go away, but should. Though I'd imagine if it went away it would be replaced with something worse.
Or better.
I like to think better. You know me.
Have a good Wednesday everyone.
Cheers,
Vi
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Conscious Effort
Here are a few things I have picked up through my lifetime that help me smile on the inside, and feel like I am doing right for myself and others. Thought I'd share.
1. Sit, stand, and walk with good posture
2. Close any and all doors gently- no slamming, ever
3. Smile at strangers instead of dropping eye contact
4. Open doors for people
5. Take it out, put it away
6. Dirty it, clean it
7. Say thank you and MEAN IT
8. Eat healthy, with the occasional splurge
9. Walk instead of driving when the destination/weather are within reason
10. Mutual respect with animals- they are just as much as part of this beautiful world as we are
11. Ask questions, respect answers
12. Everyone in the world is different, accept the differences, accept the similarities, accept the life
13. Everything in moderation
14. Accept that life is an unending learning experience and shouldn't be taken for granted or treated poorly
15. Really LISTEN to music
16. Pay attention to breathing, literally- slow deep breaths will calm the quickest heart
17. It's the little things, it always has been and always will be
18. Change your thoughts, change your life
19. If it makes you happy, DO IT
20. Love, love, love in multitudes
1. Sit, stand, and walk with good posture
2. Close any and all doors gently- no slamming, ever
3. Smile at strangers instead of dropping eye contact
4. Open doors for people
5. Take it out, put it away
6. Dirty it, clean it
7. Say thank you and MEAN IT
8. Eat healthy, with the occasional splurge
9. Walk instead of driving when the destination/weather are within reason
10. Mutual respect with animals- they are just as much as part of this beautiful world as we are
11. Ask questions, respect answers
12. Everyone in the world is different, accept the differences, accept the similarities, accept the life
13. Everything in moderation
14. Accept that life is an unending learning experience and shouldn't be taken for granted or treated poorly
15. Really LISTEN to music
16. Pay attention to breathing, literally- slow deep breaths will calm the quickest heart
17. It's the little things, it always has been and always will be
18. Change your thoughts, change your life
19. If it makes you happy, DO IT
20. Love, love, love in multitudes
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Confession Time
Ya know, I just haven't been able to set a price for my artwork yet. It's frustrating! I am really excited to put the items up but honestly- truly- I have no idea what to charge.
I certainly have a goal, yes... but is it reasonable? Is it rational? Does it have to be reasonable and rational? Why can't I just put the price I want on my work?
You see, it's a matter of balance. I know deep in my heart that I put my all into these pieces, and I love them. So, I want to make the price higher because I put a lot of myself and time into them, and I love them. I. I want someone else to love them as much as I do, and thusly "collect" and item or two. But is that too much, too selfish?
On the other hand, I have the interest to charge less because I want, perhaps, my friends to purchase one if they like it- and not feel obligated to pay a lot more.
I just have NO IDEA. I thought of doing an auction, but I don't believe that is an option on etsy.com.
I can also price a few of the pieces high, and a few of the pieces low... or make the prices negotiable... but I just can't settle on anything.
I need help with this, anyone have any suggestions? ;)
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